Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Can a dry week usher in the passion?

Can a dry week usher in the passion? Absolutely! You can make it work for you. With all the commotion this past week surrounding the death of a friend's son, our sex life came to a temporary slow-down. GR and I were both overwhelmed with this incident but now we are back to being "hot to trot"! Life happens but you must pick up the pieces and forge ahead so you can keep on keeping on. Those bumps in the road should only be temporary road blocks so you can not allow them to sabotage your marriage bed.

What do you do when a tragic situation comes along? Do you let it consume you and take over your marriage bed or do you deal with it and then resume sex the way you need it to be? "Prioritize" is one of my mottoes. The marriage bed must remain alive and well. It is one of the crucial aspects of a healthy marriage. Learn to prioritize!

5 comments:

Mark 9:24 said...

Gemma,

Glad to hear you and GR are trotting again.

For DW and I we tend to let bad situations intrude on our sex life.

Mark

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In our marriage I am the one more inclined to seek sexual comfort in times of trouble. Sarah is one to let externals impact TMB more, but she is good about letting me draw her back into intimacy.

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Dawn @ Marriage Intimacy said...

Great advice! I think a "dry week" should not deter a couple from having a healthy relationship. Intimacy can come in many forms; even a deep conversation with a partner can revitalize intimacy in one's relationship. I think it's all about creating a bond with one's partner that transcends physical intimacy.

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