Saturday, January 2, 2010

On and on and on and on and on.....

I am in a daze. Yesterday, when GR and I had sex he O'd twice which is not unusual for him but when I O'd it went on and on and on and on and on and on.... I did not think it would ever end and when it finally did end I asked him, "How long did my O last?" I knew it had gone on for a while but I had no concept of time in the midst of it, you know? He told me, "It lasted for about 15 minutes!" Whoa.... I am still in shock!!!

Did you or your spouse ever have an O go on that way?


Hiswildcherry46 said...

Hi Gemma,

When I mentioned your recent post, my husband and I grinned. Yes, I have experienced what you are talking about. It is the most delicious, all body consuming delight. My man marvels at how spaced out I get.

I am believing for greater releases and deeper freedom for both of us. Our intimacy keeps getting better.

Follow up time : I asked some of the men on this site for advice as to how to get my man to fantasize about me.
He is slowly beginning to ;-). I have been asking him to lust after me. It is still touch and go but slowly he is starting to mention that he had racy thoughts about me at the gym or in the car driving home, etc. The more I am dressing for him and being sassy and provocative towards him, the more he is being enabled to REALLY SEE ME.
I am hopeful. There is more for our marriage and I want it all.

job29man said...

I've never even heard of such a thing. Wow. It must have been a different kind of O than what I know of. The only kind of O DW has is so intense she cannot breathe. It would not be possible to sustain for so long. I've never seen her O last more than 20 seconds or so.

Gemma said...

To date, I'd have to say that this was my longest O ever. I've never had one come even close to it for length of time. It was intense but not so intense where I had to stop it. Some of my O's are so intense that I have to eventually stop them midstream because I'm wiped out. This one kept going on and on and I must not have been tired or anything because I was able to easily ride with it for that long.

scotty said...

Can I ask what form of stimulation got you there? The only time I can go for more than a few seconds is with a vibe and even then I will consciously stop it. It think I get self conscious that I'm going so long. Not that dh would want me to stop but it feels weird to go on and on! Never even come close to what you're describing though.

Anonymous said...

There is more to life than sex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Gemma said...

Anon said: "There is more to life than sex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

Soooo, why are you here reading a blog which regularly has discussions about...... sex ;-)? Are you saying that you don't like sex at all? Please explain.

And really, nobody is saying that life is only about sex, although, most of us here are of the opinion that good sex is the glue which keeps marriages alive and full of passion. I've seen many bad marriage relationships where the sex is bad but I've only seen good marriages where the sex is over the top with passion.

Gemma said...

scotty asked: "Can I ask what form of stimulation got you there?"

We had already had PIV-IC. GR was doing man-stimulation, then we added a vibe and before I knew it I was ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!! Only reason I know it was 15 minutes is because GR told me so.

Ancient Mariner said...

In response to Anon: “there is more to life than sex...”

True, and we are more than lust-driven animals always looking for frenzied copulation. But.…
In my experience, frequent sex provides unexpected benefits to a marriage. The other day, I was in a foul mood, and I picked a fight with my wife. Rather than fight back, she came up to me, looked me in the eyes, and asked why I was so intent on fighting. Then she lay back on the bed, lifted her dress, and opened her legs. It was an invitation I could not refuse, and with each thrust into her, and the moans I got in response, I marveled at how much better it was to be fucking rather than fighting. I also realized that we got to this point because of the conscious decision we had made months ago to sleep with each other as often as we could.

And the unexpected benefits? We are closer now than ever before, we forgive each other before arguments start (actually, we find it difficult to even argue); we are more “into” each other. And on and on. Plus, we have both discovered that we LOVE hard sex, and a lot of it.

So don’t knock it until you try it. It works for many of us.

Hiswildcherry46 said...

I was saddened by the anger behind Anon's comment and felt what once was deep rage and disappointment, regarding sex, resurge from my past. I truthfully had to deal with it for the rest of the day.

That re-visited emotional diversion is a powerful response which many 'awakened' warriors in the bedroom have had to re-address, I am sure.

For Anon's potential benefit, I would like to state that my entire life has turned around 180 degrees since allowing myself to open my whole life to my husband. I am simply not the same person anymore.

I do hope and pray that oneday, Anon will allow this awesomeness to enter his/her heart as we all have done. We talk a foreign language in a sense so should not be surprised when the comprehension that we enjoy is not there for some people. BTDT.

Anonymous said...

"There is more to life than sex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

What? There is? Does it feel as good?

Back to the topic-
Never had a long O like that. Didn't think it was possible. I think I need to get more creative and go all out. Thanks for sharing.


job29man said...

I wish this was something that could be taught and learned. If there was a book, CD, or DVD that could teach it I'd get it for DW.

Shoot, I'd even enroll her in a seminar if I thought it could be learned. (chuckle)