Friday, September 4, 2009

A Reader's Favorite- Piercings & Permanent Tattoos on Wives (Wait, don't go away! This is not all we discuss here.)

One of my readers wanted to know---

What do wives think about getting a permanent body modification such as a piercing or a permanent tattoo which would serve as a reminder of their pledge of submission to their husband? Wives, would you consider it if your husband asked you to do it? Husbands, would your wife consider it if you asked her? Have you wives considered offering this to your husband and would you ask him if he would like it even if he never brought it up?

I am not a person who thinks about piercing or permanent tattoos as they generally do not appeal to me. But if my husband asked me to have it done, I would do it in a heartbeat. My only request would be to have the option of having it done in a private area on my body where only he and I would be able to see it. I would also consider asking my husband if this is something that he would be interested in having me do. My husband has no piercings or tattoos so I would be surprised if he expressed desire to have me get one but you never know about these things, do you?

15 comments:

bunnyhunch said...

Gemma: I am not a person who thinks about piercing or permanent tattoos as they generally do not appeal to me. But if my husband asked me to have it done, I would do it in a heartbeat. My only request would be to have the option of having it done in a private area on my body where only he and I would be able to see it.

I'm with you, Gemma, 100%. If he seriously wanted me to do this, I would absolutely say yes, as I try to do with every request he makes. Otherwise, I have no interest in getting any tattoos or piercings.

Ancient Mariner said...

My dw's skin is very sensitive, to the point where she cannot wear piercing jewelry like earrings. For that reason alone, I would not want her to get a tattoo. In my fantasy world, though, she would have a prominent, easily seen one which would signify to everyone that she was owned, and that she was the object of my lust. However, IRL, I would not want her walking around looking like that. So no permanent tattoos.

Some of those stick-on ones look interesting, though...

job29man said...

Hmmm. I've never asked DW this question. My guess is that it would be "crossing the line" into an area that she finds distasteful and even repulsive.

At this point I'd say I'll never ask the question or make the request. We do have fun with temporary tattoos, but that's a whole different deal.

Dani said...

I would also do it in a heartbeat, if asked. I have multiple holes in my ears and I know that he is considering getting my ear pierced again, just for him...but nothing yet. I couldn't get a real tattoo unless he asked me to, too scary, but if it was somewhere that could be hidden, I would do it for him.

Not the same thing, but I am also growing my hair out just for his pleasure. I always kept it short, just under my ears, but it is now down to my shoulders (and driving me nuts). But he loves it.

so blessed said...

I think this would be a terrific gift from a submissive wife to her Dominant Husband. The willingness to accept something permanent as a symbol of her love and submission would just say so much.

Dani said, "I know that he is considering getting my ear pierced again, just for him . . ." Even an extra ear piercing, when it is "just for him", would be really hot!

Hiswildcherry46 said...

May have mentioned before that I have a belly stud. I LOVE IT. Only snag we have come across is that I am really active during sex and love rear entry where I lie on my stomach...hell on the piercing as it gets inflamed really fast!
Almost thought I would have to have it removed at one point but kept it clean and bacteria free and it healed beautifully.

Have usual pierced earrings and would go for more but my man does not think it necessary.

Intimate piercings scare the crud out of me so no go there. I am so very sensitive and he loves that about me thus to have something pierced into my lady parts would totally hinder our love making.

Neither of us are into hurting each other during sex and I think pain is a primary motivator in intimate piercings. I shudder thinking of the drag on my lady bud during intercourse...uh uh.

I play with temp. tats and he loves where I choose to put them. He loves my tushy so I often put a cute tat there and do silly stuff like showing it off during one of his work calls (he works from home). Turns both of us on but oh, dear, we just HAVE to wait for later. Sigh.

I, too, am willing to do almost anything my husband wants me to do. I sometimes feel absolutely pathetic at how much of a loyal puppy dog I am but he adores this about me and we have a wonderful life together so I keep on slobbering all over him ;-)

Tulipsanticipation said...

I don't think he'd ever initiate it, but I've thought about getting a tattoo in a semi-private location. I would definitely think about it if he asked though.

Mark 9:24 said...

I have had the fantasy in the past of having DW get a rose tattoo on her lower back just above the crack of her @$$.
Though after that link hunnybunch posted in another thread, the one with the Chinese word (the slave girl one), I think I would want to add that imposed on the rose.

This may be a hard limit like with Jobs wife, but I have never actually pushed it to find out.

Mark

Gemma said...

Mark, do you have any tattoos? It might be an easier "sell" if you already had one or if you got one first and then asked wife to get one.

Cherry, glad you enjoy your belly pierce but I have to say-- it sounds painful when you're on your stomach and snag it... OUCH.

Anonymous said...

The way I feel about it, gravity happens. No permanent markings or piercings that might help it along.

Hiswildcherry46 said...

Anonymous,
I love a dry sense of humor and you lightened me up considerably as I read your quip...gave me a good chuckle. Thx.

Mark 9:24 said...

Hiswildcherry46 said...
... I, too, am willing to do almost anything my husband wants me to do. I sometimes feel absolutely pathetic at how much of a loyal puppy dog I am but he adores this about me and we have a wonderful life together so I keep on slobbering all over him ;-)


HWC, I see nothing pathtic about it at all.
Imagine how much better marriages that are having problems in TMB would be if all the wives did as you do. ;-)

Mark

Mark 9:24 said...

Gemma said...
Mark, do you have any tattoos? It might be an easier "sell" if you already had one or if you got one first and then asked wife to get one.


No I don't and I have never thought about getting one. (food for thought)

I don't have my ears pierced either. :-)

Mark

Mark 9:24 said...

Anonymous said...
The way I feel about it, gravity happens. No permanent markings or piercings that might help it along.


Wouldn't that depend on where you got them? ;-)

Mark

Anonymous said...

When my wife & I were first starting to get to know each other, I offhandedly told her that she would look absolutely *hot* with a nose piercing. She thought I was kidding, but I assured her that I was not. She sorta brushed me off with a "whatever/yeah, right" (not in a mean way).
Last night, on our first anniversary, she came home - with her nose pierced. Two things: I was right, and Sweet Moses, she is just the coolest.... It wasn't a submission thing, she just did it b/c she knew I'd dig it.