Wednesday, July 22, 2009

A Reader's Favorite- Intimate Jewelry

One reader expressed interest in intimate jewelry-- nipple jewelry, clit clips, erotic looking chains dangling from or between nipples and/or clits, jeweled butt plugs... both piercing and non-piercing. This reader commented that the sites which display jewelry on live models or mannequins, give a much better idea of how the jewelry is worn and what it would look like on the person wearing it and I have to agree. I have been to sites where they only display intimate jewelry against a backdrop and I would generally not buy from them because I prefer to see it on a body before making a purchase.

So what is your opinion of intimate jewelry? Do you have any? Where do you prefer to shop for it? Have you ever made jewelry of this sort? Do you wear intimate jewelry in the bedroom? Do you wear it on dates or when you are out of town? Do you wear it around the house or when running errands or at your job?

38 comments:

DaMattafan said...

Don't have any of our own and have mentioned nipple clamps to DW a few times and she seems interested in trying a few variations so I will be watching this carefully to find out some more info on the best places to shop for them!

Anonymous said...

I wear a steel cockring occasionally. Spent a few months wearing one all day. Nothing fancy, but my wife and I agree - it looks good.

Dani said...

I have a pair of beaded nipple clamps that I ware from time to time, but just around the house. I wore them when I was cleaning yesterday, it was hot here and I was home alone and toppless...hubbys request. Anyway, it was funny to see them dangle when I was washing out the tub.

Gemma said...

I have the chain link tweezer nipple clamps. Here it is displayed against a backdrop: http://www.fetish-sensations.co.uk/index.asp?pid=2&cat=FETISH&view=1&ID=318

Don't look here if it will bother you but for those who want or need to see it on a body: http://www.stockroom.com/Adj-Tweezer-Clamps-w-Jewelry-Chain-P560.aspx

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Anonymous said...

I like these ideas.

I have purchased a number of items from Hobby Lobby, like little jewelry chains and even the stuff to make some little slip nooses to go around the nipples. Fortunately DW has those nice "eraser head" nipples.

So I want to make little nipple jewelry for her including chains that go up to a necklace and lace through a ring in the necklace.

I also have this fantasy of making a pussy bell. I bought a natural sponge and plastic lanyard to tie to it. Then a little bell to tie to the end of it. My plan is to insert the sponge into her and let the bell dangle a few inches below her body. Then we'll go out on the town with the bell dinging away and her not wearing panties under her skirt.

I have a plan to explain away the dinging sound, and that is a little necklace with an identical bell on it, but the "clapper" removed. So people will think it is the necklace that is dinging, but we'll know that it's really her pussy bell.

Wink!

Anonymous said...

Anything hanging between my DW breasts. It pull my gaze to that spot.

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Gemma said...

Tweezer clamps can be as gentle as you want them to be, depending on how tight you adjust them AND depending on what you put in them. Just nipples pressed in the clamps and it will likely hurt more but if you clamp skin from both nipples and areola it may be more comfortable. Also, you have to use common sense with the length of time that you wear them. They do make the breasts, esp nipples more sensitive to touch.

Clit clamps-- I've never worn one and don't know if I'd want to so I can't help you there. I'm more interested in getting a harness which will hold in and allow me to internally wear both a dildo and a butt plug simultaneously.

Regarding chains from nipple clamps--- Are you asking if anyone has experience being pulled around in public by the chain? Not me! But I've worn it in public where GR can occasionally reach in my blouse or dress and tug on the chain.

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Hiswildcherry46 said...

Hey y'all,

I am so awesomely nipple crazy when we make love that these posts have gotten me thinking more than once about nipple clamps.

Bit freaked out by the idea though. How do you hide them under close fitting tops? I can just imagine a chain being tugged when we are out and me going into throes of ecstasy right then...way too intimate for me at this time.

All my husband has to do is love on my nipples and I can hit the roof. How I would handle nipple clamps is beyond me. Our ceiling would be dented for sure ;-)

Gemma said...

Nipple clamps aren't all that freaky, really ;-). Personally, I wouldn't wear clamps with a close-fitting top because it would detract from the sensual feeling that the clamps give to the wearer. You want the clamps to be free to dangle loosely so that when your breasts move, so do the clamps. Also, if someone wants to tug at your chain the clamps will be able to pull at your nipples better when you're not wearing a close fitting top, when the clamps are free to move around. Does that make sense? And you don't need to worry about pain as you can easily adjust the tweezer clamps to your liking.

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Bev said...

At a very different time in my life I had my nipples pierced and I loved it. It was my very own naughty little secret. I really don’t remember the reason I took them out but I would totally get it done again.

Anonymous said...

I have a few cock rings that I love to wear but don't wear around the house very often unless I am left along for a while and have the urge. My wife does not have any jewelry of this sort and don't think that she would be into it. Most of the cock rings that I have a bought through Healthy and Active. I love the Three Ring with place for shaft and balls. I recently got the Tear Drop but feel that the '"ring is a bit thick for my liking.

so blessed said...

Job29man said: OK my fertile mind just figured out a way to "lead her around by the nipples in public".

Hmm . . . just thinking . . . if you wanted to expand that to a real leash, you could make one that is still discreet from a distance. Go to a craft store, get some very light weight chain (necklace style),some split rings and clasps. Put a clasp on each end, using one to attach to the center of the nipple chain and one to form a loop for your hand.

Proceed as planned at the park, and have her wear a loose blouse tucked in her skirt. When the "coast is clear," have her open the button just below her breasts, take out the leash, along with the center portion of the nipple chain. Lead her around as you wish, knowing that if someone suddenly approaches, you can turn her toward you, drop the leash and chain back inside her blouse, she crosses her arms over the open button, and no one should be the wiser.

And don't forget to have her open the blouse for a photo in a really discreet spot; you will want that for later!

Gemma said...

While you guys are scheming for ways to lead your dw's around by nipple clamps--- Keep in mind that loosely fastened clamps are more comfy but can fall off more easily and tightly fastened clamps are less comfy although they'd stay on better for leading. I'd hate for anyone to go through a lot of work making clamps/chain to lead their dw around only to find out that it doesn't work. At any rate it will be more challenging than leading your dw around with a collar and leash, which would be our speed ;-).

Gemma said...

So Bev, where did you go to get your nipples pierced, if I'm not being too nosey?

Gemma said...

Anon, what does wearing a cock ring around the house do for a guy when he's not having sex? I'm clueless.

Anonymous said...

"Anon, what does wearing a cock ring around the house do for a guy when he's not having sex? I'm clueless."

It's fun for me to walk around the house with a big fat hard-on sticking through my cock ring. I don't know, it's just fun to look at and play with. The tight feeling is great and can get me really worked up. I don't know what else to say, it's great having a penis to look at and play with!

Anonymous said...

Could someone tell me how to put on a clit clip?

Bev said...

I went to a local tatoo/piercing place. They were having a special that day.

job29man said...

There is a site called justfortonight.com, in which I did not see any live models. They have things called tittie pretties, which are stick on "jewelry", like lines of beads and pretty stones, that go around the nipples. Looks interesting, and something called "kitty pretties" which are the same thing but they go around the vulva.

I can see how they could really spice up an evening so I'm going to order some.

Mark 9:24 said...

Anon,

I'm a bit clueless about cock rings myself.
Just what are the mechanics of the ring? How does it work and how long is it safe to wear one? Do you stay hard the entire time you wear it?

Mark

Mark 9:24 said...

Job, said:

I did a web search using the terms "erotic jewelry" and also came up with a few places that sell sterling silver earrings and necklaces of couples in a few sexual positions including 69. I liked those and thought they would be kind of "dangerous" for her to wear, but could be covered by her hair in public except when she wants to brush her hair aside to give me a "show".


I am curious about your search for "erotic jewelry" and your findings. Could you share the links?

Mark

Bev said...

Thanks Job, those are great!!!

job29man said...

Mark,

studio925.com/erotique.htm

icame.com/improving-sex/sexual-positions.com

But I'm having a bit of trouble accessing them today. Don't know if it's problems with my computer ( a lot lately) or the sites.

job29man said...

search under kama sutra jewelry

Anonymous said...

Mark 9:24

On cock rings...
so there are several different kinds out there, and the biggest thing you HAVE to get right is the size. I have 4 at this point and know my size so I feel comfortable buying more and more advanced ones as I go. Also for me, I start getting hard the minute I start to put one on, sometimes I have to be quick or I'll be too hard to get everything in place before it's to late (this happens with the tear drop and three ring most often). I'll stay hard until I come or let everything relax for a while, I don't have to stay hard the whole time I have it on. Once I do come, I have to give myself a little time to soften up before I take the ring off.
I hope this answers your questions, let me know if you need any more info and I'll be happy to help you out if I can.

Mark 9:24 said...

Job,

studio925.com/erotique.htm
came up blank for me as well. I get a 404 error.

icame.com/improving-sex/sexual-positions.com
Looks like it s/b http://icame.com/improving-sex/sexual-positions and certainly has a lot of interesting info.

I looked up kama sutra jewelry as you suggested and found this: http://www.gypsymagick.com/KamaSutra/kamasutra1.html
Some fun stuff there I'd like to see DW wearing. ;-)

Mark

job29man said...

Yes Mark,

Those are the pendants I'm talking about! I want one of the 69 position!

Job

Tulipsanticipation said...

Great post. I've been interested in this for a while but don't have anything.

Question - do you have to have larger breasts and/or nipples for the nipple clamps to work? I'm assuming you'd want to go braless when wearing these too or else you wouldn't feel anything?

And what does it feel like to wear the clit jewelry? What exactly is the benefit there?

Gemma said...

Any size breasts/nipples would work in tweezer clamps. You could wear them under a bra, or with a "peek-a-boo" bra (nipple holes) or going braless.

Someone else will have to explain about wearing clit clamps. I've never one.

Mark 9:24 said...

Job said:
Yes Mark,

Those are the pendants I'm talking about! I want one of the 69 position!


They look like a lot of fun for those "special" nights out. Probably in another town where no one knows you.

Mark.

bunnyhunch said...

Gemma: I have the chain link tweezer nipple clamps. Here it is displayed against a backdrop: http://www.fetish-sensations.co.uk/index.asp?pid=2&cat=FETISH&view=1&ID=318

DH bought me the same ones a couple of weeks ago. I've tried them a few times, but have difficulty getting them to stay on, as the vinyl tips keep falling off. If I use metal alone, they are painful. I've tried making various adjustments in how they are put on, but haven't made them work perfectly yet. I'm thinking of removing the tiny tips they came with & dipping the tweezers in liquid plastic, the kind hardware stores carry to dip plier handles in. That way they could be dipped a little farther down than the original tips were & even get a heavier coating. Any other ideas?

Gemma said...

bunnyhunch,

I've had the vinyl tips come off a couple of times.... OUCH! You could try the liquid plastic dip or another idea and I don't know how it would work-- super glue. No, don't super glue the clamps to your nipples but maybe you can super glue the vinyl tips to the tweezers. I'll be doing something with my nipple clamps to keep those tips in place. Let me know what you end up doing.

Anonymous said...

Ok - TMB blew my mind when I found it. I'm similarly shocked again. There seems to be a consensus on TMB that B&D, D&S is ok but S&M is fetish and off limits. I've always been uncomfortable with and still think the humiliation aspect of some D&S/B&D is not really honoring my spouse. But I'd consider the jewelry & rings as light S&M (spanking too), and good naughty married fun.

Mark 9:24 said...

Anonymous said...
...There seems to be a consensus on TMB that B&D, D&S is ok but S&M is fetish and off limits....


Lots of folks on TMB don't like any of it.
Plus anything can be a fetish.
Feet, shoes, hair, panties, anything.

But I'd consider the jewelry & rings as light S&M (spanking too), and good naughty married fun.

Personally I don't consider spanking to be S&M. It is primarally S&M that makes me hate the term BDSM.
True Masochists and Sadists need to be delivered from it.

Mark