Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Enjoying PIV-IC without Oing

"Say whaaaaaat???" You read correctly! This is something that GR and I experienced a handful of times when we have already O'd and enjoyed the afterglow. But then... I will be playfully giving him a hand-job while we are talking because my hands never stop when, lo and behold, we become aroused again and he is hard once more. I hate to waste a hard dick and we both really enjoy PIV-IC so when this takes place we go at it again. The only difference is that if we are all O'd out then we cannot O of course but, regardless, we enjoy the fucking until we drop.

Doing this totally flies against the "need-to-O-every-time" mentality but do not knock it until you try it. PIV-IC without Oing is a hot, mutually satisfying way for a couple to end their love making. You will be thanking each other throughout the day for the erotic conclusion to the session.

11 comments:

CLA said...

That brings back some memories. Back in the day (before menopause) when she could handle more than once a day I'd enjoy the multiple experience and sometimes I knew that eventually a point would come when I wouldn't O, but it was still very pleasurable nonetheless. (Also fun to see how many times a day we could do it with an O.)When PIC IC would occur and I knew that I wouldn't O it did make me think of the difference between the sexes though. That is, PIV IC taking place knowing that there wouldn't be an O happening for the guy. I wondered if I would still like PIV IC as much knowing that on at least some occasions an O wouldn't be a part of it for me.

bunnyhunch said...

We just returned from a brief get-away. We had no-O sex much of the time. It was great fun to have sex often throughout both days and in many different ways. (Being in a pool added a lot of variety!) Several times I O'd, but not always. DH knew he couldn't do achieve O's as often as I could, so he saved his up for a couple of bigger LM sessions. We were in constantly in a state of arousal, making the Big Finish even bigger and worth waiting for.

Awhile ago, when we were only having sex a few times a week, not Oing would be frustrating. With frequent sex, it is usually not a negative thing; it can still be quite good. Frequent sex, even without an O, is definitely better than less sex. ;-)

Gemma said...

Glad you and dh enjoyed your time away, bunnyhunch.

luvmygirls said...

We like to do this sometimes, too. Sometimes you just can't get enough of each other. Amazing!

Gemma said...

Yes, lmg, it IS amazing!

job29man said...

Only recently have I considered this for me.

Sometimes when DW Sarah gets me close to "sated", I know I want to go "one more time" but I also know it's midnight, way past the sleep time I need and it'll take me at least 30-40 mins of really "hard work" to come again.

Well... I'd never considered just having sex for 10 minutes then pulling out and going to sleep. But now I think I'll try it.

Gemma said...

Just be forewarned, Job, if you try this. Your work day immediately following morning sex or the next morning after night sex... well... just be prepared to go through the day with an ache between your legs, a strong desire for sex. Call it what you like. Sometimes I describe it as a "hiney tingle". Basically, your body will be craving for the next time that you and dw do each other. And you will be sorely distracted in your thinking for the entire day. But it's a good ache, a good tingle, a good distraction ;-). It keeps you like a horny toad, hehe.

job29man said...

OK that settles it. I'm going for it next time! (grin)

Gemma said...

Well, Job..... Did you go for it yet?

job29man said...

I'm sorry to report that DW and I have scarcely even seen each other the past few days/nights. Arrrg.

But I'm taking the next few days off and taking her to a "real city" where we'll stay for two nights, do "city stuff" (dinner, shows, museums, etc) and have lots of sex. Hopefully I'll get to try it out there.

This is our first "non business trip" getaway in a few years.

Gemma said...

Sorry you guys have been like passing ships these past few days. Enjoy your city stay. You can let us know if you try it out and if you are successful.

But no pressure ;-)....