Monday, April 20, 2009

Welcome to my pink world- An OT comment

Take a look at what GR bought for me Saturday. We're taking golf lessons and plan to spend some regular time playing together. GR has only played a few times with coworkers and customers; I have never played. When the golf shop employee began showing us bags, he pointed out a couple of blue ones but I had already scanned the place while we walked in and knew they had pink stuff. I tried to politely listen to what he had to say and then I replied with a typical female comment, "You need to know that I don't like the color blue. Can you show us something in pink?" And we found this pink bag on sale for $50 along with a set of pink clubs to go with it. Well, it all had to match, you know, and it had to be a girlie color. I know I will be able to play better with pink clubs ;-).

7 comments:

Who am I said...

Hey this looks great.

I am shocked, you and GR actually do something outside the bedroom, besides eat.

I know from what you have said, he works long hours, and you share about your wonderful and frequent lovemaking- guess I forgot you might have more joint time together in your lives.

Can't wait to hear what kind of creative outdoors sex you guys come up with on the golf course.

Gemma said...

I was just thinking about golf course sex the other day. Hmmm, wonder how feasible that would be?

Odo said...

Like I've said before, Who Am I, they're tigers in heat! I, too, was surprised they do something outside of the bedroom!

But, gemma, a PINK golf bag? OK, I've not played for years but I can't remember any ladies on courses with PINK golf bags. Their husbands would have had multiple cows! OK, this is the 21st century and golf must not be as sacred as it once was. LOL!

Gemma said...

Of course a pink golf bag, why not? I wanted a girlie color and pink was it. They make bags and clubs in pink, yellow, lime green, orange, etc. I chose pink.

And I have to agree with you, Odo-- GR and I do seem to live in heat. We enjoyed some hot bondage sex last night while our kids were out. Then we cranked it up again around 3am for some vanilla sex and again at 6am for more vanilla sex.

I can't figure out if something is wrong with GR and me or if something is wrong with folks who don't take advantage of their bedroom time the way we do. That's what happens when you sleep nude. You have sex, you rest your bodies against each other a while, you get horny again, you have sex again.... and so on.

Odo said...

IF ONLY, GEMMA!!!!! If you two ever decide to market the...recipe of whatever you take...I want a train load!!!!! I doubt it's ginko biloba...

You guys rock...

Obviously...

Gemma said...

Odo, I always and freely give our "recipe"---

We eat right. We make sure we get enough rest, sleep and exercise. We don't crowd our life with stuff and things that take away from our marriage bed.

Our church is very pro-marriage and as such, they never, NEVER ask members to spend time doing things that would take away from the marriage. We used to be in churches like that where the pastors and leadership guilted a few members into keeping the church running. We left those churches 9 years ago.

We love our kids but our kids lives don't rule us. In other words, we don't run around all week like chickens with our heads cut off to keep our kids in sports and social groups. Our responsibility starts and ends with making sure that they can get to and from school and work; that's it. Anything beyond that we consider as lagniappe, something extra we do if and when time permits.

We make and keep our marriage bed in top priority and guard it jealously. You can't have time and energy for high quality and quantity of sex if you allow life to suck up your time and energy. No wonder so many couples hit the bed too exhausted at night to enjoy sex. They're too pooped to party.

There's my recipe. I share this all the time but many folks read it and think, "That GR and Gemma... they're just neglecting life. Our kids need... Our church needs..." To that I say, "No, you're neglecting your marriage bed! Which should take priority, life or marriage bed?"

Mark 9:24 said...

Gemma wrote:
We love our kids but our kids lives don't rule us. In other words, we don't run around all week like chickens with our heads cut off to keep our kids in sports and social groups. Our responsibility starts and ends with making sure that they can get to and from school and work; that's it. Anything beyond that we consider as lagniappe, something extra we do if and when time permits.
Good for you guys! There is to much of that going on in our society and it burns families out.

You and GR have a good recipe. All of it :-)

Mark