Wednesday, April 8, 2009

A Reader's Favorites- (He likes it all ;-)

This reader had some second thoughts and posted another list of things that his spouse isn't up for trying at this time. (Yes, you can post "a wish list" of sorts.)

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"well, I have had some more time to reflect, also realized that it was probably ok to post things that I was interested in, but I know my wife isn't enthused about. So here are some more.

Having my wife strip for me, me stripping for her. Oral sex on her or myself. Always fascinated with lingerie. Love garters and hose, crotchless, thongs, etc.
Sex at different times of day, morning, noon, night, late nate.
Extended sexual intercourse.
Multiple orgasms for her or me.
Sex toys and sex furniture."

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Others here will have to comment on the stripping. GR and I don't like stripping. But crotchless--- Oo-la-la! No other way to go, imo. Perhaps your wife would agree to go crotchless on a special date night? Or for a gentler idea-- trying something crotchless in bed one night, where it's just she and you. Day sex can be really hot, with having sunlight or even daylight shining on you. It gives a whole different feel to having sex. I understand, not agree with, a dh or dw being leery of using sex toys or sex furniture. You really have to throw inhibitions to the wind.

Well, I don't want to say too much here. Your comments?

17 comments:

midwestman said...

OK - you started it - mwm wish list:

- I come home from work to find my wife waiting for me with nothing or something sexy on that comes off easily and she leads me off to the love nest where she ravishes me

- Her going commando and telling me about it when I can't do a thing about it (like in church or at a resturant)

- Her doing OS on me to completion - and one step farther to include deepthroating (or at least trying either of these again to see if she can). I think it would be sooooooo awesome to see her take me completely into her mouth - WOW!

- For her to initiate sex in the middle of the night

- For her to really truly believe me when I tell her she is very sexy to me!

mwm

midwestman said...

Gotta add:

- To give her multiple orgasms until she just can't take any more - but make that the focal point of that session - that would be totally awesome to just watch her!

- Multiple orgasms for me

- For her to be more vocal during LM - particularly telling me naughty things to lite my fire even more!

mwm

Anonymous said...

I used the info here: http://www.themarriagebed.com/pages/sexuality/splay/how-to-strip.shtml
to learn how to strip for dh. A lot of it was new to me and it really taught me a lot about men and what they like. I have body issues so it was a real challenge but it went SO well! I would love for dh to strip for me...we'll see!

Anonymous said...

My DW has worn crotchless pantehose on several dates. I love it. There is nothing like knowing what is waiting for you when you get home.

Gemma said...

midwestman said: "Her going commando and telling me about it when I can't do a thing about it (like in church or at a resturant)"

mwm, you're into that "mind torture", eh ;-)? If you can sit strategicly in a restaurant, there are times that you CAN do something about it but then.... it's torturous for a wife to endure finger-play without letting on to the waiter and other customers.

Gemma said...

Anon said: "My DW has worn crotchless pantehose on several dates. I love it. There is nothing like knowing what is waiting for you when you get home."

That's what is nice about wearing thigh highs and a garter belt besides the erotic feeling for the female wearing it--- it's naturally crotchless.

bunnyhunch said...

Gemma said: "If you can sit strategicly in a restaurant, there are times that you CAN do something about it but then.... it's torturous for a wife to endure finger-play without letting on to the waiter and other customers."

Now THAT would be unbearably good, Gemma!

A couple of years ago I tried something that I hoped would make DH squirm in a restaurant. I wore nothing but a sexy black bra under my winter dress coat (not full length, so I also had on a black skirt and stockings). Sadly, he didn't notice, and once I showed him he didn't quite understand why I would go to a restaurant that way. It isn't as good when it has to be explained! :(

I had hoped he'd want to head right up to the motel room I'd reserved (another surprise) to make mad, passionate love, and then come down to dinner. We did go up to the room, but only so I could get fully dressed and go down to dinner; he hadn't eaten all day in anticipation of a good meal.

Oh well. Even things that don't go quite as planned are fun. So the coat thing didn't work. Bet the crotchless thing would!

Gemma said...

Gemma said: "If you can sit strategicly in a restaurant, there are times that you CAN do something about it..."

Oops, that should be "strategically".

bunnyhunch said...

I cannot think of anything I would love to do that my spouse is unwilling to do; that would be impossible.

The only thing stopping us is not having enough $$ for all the toys and furniture we'd like to try. You all sound like you're having a fantastic time with them!

Anonymous said...

I have sent her the article from TMB about stripping, but really hasn't inspired her.

I love crotchless, not a big thrill of hers.

Would love it if she would try something like the restaurant and motel seduction above. I think I would wait on my steak.

Interesting how different things, trip different people's triggers.

midwestman said...

BunnyHunch, if my DW did that to me, the dinner would definately wait! You're a good sport for trying things like that though, most guys would love it if their DW would do things like that. Unfortunately, my DW is not the adventurous type and even going without panties IN the house doesn't happen much...

mwm

Anonymous said...

My wife often wears just a garter belt and stockings under a skirt when we go out to eat. Then add an open cup bra and I have trouble saying down.

bunnyhunch said...

MWM - It was just an unfortunate thing that evening. He had literally not eaten the entire day in anticipation of a good dinner; he was famished by the time we got to the restaurant. He can't be faulted. I should have anticipated it and had a light snack ready for him before we left. It was a new thing, fun to try. Once his belly was taken care of, so was the rest, and it still was a wonderful date.

Your response is appreciated, though!

These postings are making me want to try some new things. ;)

Anonymous said...

Try serving you DH in nothing but garter belt, sockings and high heels. My DW did that and I loved it.

Mark 9:24 said...

What else would I like with DW?

I would LOVE to be able to have multiple orgasms. She gets to have them. Why not me? ;-)

A secret room off of our master bedroom dedicated to sex. All walls would be mirrored, Lots of sex furniture, TOTALLY sound proof. (Imagine the sound of orgasms reflecting off of the mirrors, pun intended). A wading poo in the middle of the room with a large showerhead overhead. Great for getting all oily and/or soapy! ;-) Lost of sex toys. A totaly isolated and private server with stategically placed cameras all around to capture ALL the action. Oh ya, it would be cool if thet roof had a huge skylight.

Have my DW be sexually agressive.

Mark

Gemma said...

Mark, that sounds like my ideal master suite. One day.... only the sex room will be private for our use only rather than being secret. (How do you hide a room from college kids? You can't!)

GR doesn't get many O's either. He always does 1, often does 2 and when he's feeling really energetic, he'll go for 3. Usually that's his limit in any one session.

Mark 9:24 said...

Gemma,

Yes, that would make a great bedroom wouldn't it. ;-)

I only have one orgasm a session, and sometimes not even that.

Mark