GR and I regularly enjoy discussing sexual topics when we have privacy and we are away from the bedroom. We find that it really adds a level of eroticism and anticipation of future love making sessions. This is above and beyond having sex talks during sex.
Do you and spouse take opportunities for these conversations when you are away from the bedroom? If you do, does it help keep the fires stoked? If this is not something you have done, do you think it could kick the eroticism up a notch or two in your relationship?