Do we not know that there are problems? Do we think that the issues at hand are no biggie... that everyone is supposed to struggle with these things? Are we living in total denial? Do we not care enough about ourselves, our spouse, our marriage and for that matter, our kids too? After all, our marriage issues also affect our kids. Does fear of the unknown hold us back? Are we afraid of what our family and/or friends will say? Is it the old social stigma of mental health? Do we not want to spend the money on professional help? Are we simply too lazy to go?
In your educated or uneducated opinion, what do you feel is the main reason(s) why most folks put off receiving emotional and sexual help for their marriage? And what do you think we can do to change that, for ourselves and for others?