A number of my readers are often seeking specific ideas with which to ramp up the eroticism in their marriage bed. There is nothing wrong with that, right? I know what works for me and I will share some of that, too, as the "thread" develops.
There are times for most of us where we like to take it up a notch, if only for a session or for a specific time of phone sex. In other words, I am referring to "mountaintop experiences" here, folks. We all know that we cannot permanently live on the mountaintop but we sure can visit it on a regular "as needed" basis.
What makes your spouse's eyeballs pop out? When you really want to bring it on hard and heavy in the heat of the moment, what do you tell them? How do you talk to them? What do you do? How do you move? How do you touch? What is it that brings your spouse to a point of no return... to a point where, unless someone is bleeding to death or the house is on fire, you render them helpless and useless.