Monday, November 24, 2008

OS on husband through a condom?

I read a comment where a husband expressed excitement because his wife was going to start giving him OS. Nothing unusual. But what had me curious, he said that she told him-- The only way she would do OS is with him wearing a condom.

Someone help me out here. Is that really exciting for a dh when he is wearing a condom and... is it fun for the wife to give OS through the condom? I don't get it.

9 comments:

scotty said...

I'm baffled!

I was reading some posts on TMB and I can't believe (well I can, but it's sad) the hang ups some ladies have with giving dh OS. Seeing dh face when I bless him with that is so incredible, now I just wish I could finish him that way - but it's only happened a couple of times. Doesn't seem to be enough for him to get there.

Cocotte said...

If I may be blunt, it would be really gross to me to be sucking/licking latex. The smell of it alone would be nasty, but I have to guess there would be a taste to it too.

I don't understand about the hang ups either. The mouth is a germier place than the penis.

Gemma said...

Well scotty, imo wives often (not always) tend to have more sexual hang-ups then husbands. But it's not fun for those who live on the short end of sexual satisfaction no matter which gender.

It seems to me... and I might be wrong... that females more than males grow up thinking that "sex is dirty" because of what they hear from parents and church or they grow up not even realizing that "marital sex should be fun". No small wonder when they marry and can't see sex as anything but dirty. Then they waste years in their marriage trying to get their heads screwed on straight. All the more reason for us to be careful in how we teach our own kids.

Gemma said...

cocotte, you may be as blunt as you like ;-). I'm right there with you and would never EVER think to put latex in my mouth, with or without my dh's penis being inside it. Well, heck, he wouldn't like that either.

I appreciate the comments. At least I know it's not just me who thinks that sucking/licking on latex is weird.

scotty said...

Yeah Gemma... no one could ever accuse you of a lack of bluntness - that's what I like about you :)

Gemma said...

Who me??? It was cocotte who was being blunt... and then I agreed with her ;-) ;-) ;-) .

midwestman said...

My DW blesses me with OS regularly:) However, she cannot let me O in her mouth - just can't handle the taste/texture (although she has only done it once, on our wedding night, and never tried again - I have hinted strongly that I would REALLY like her to try again but no dice - so I have decided that this just isn't going to happen and let it drop). I'd like to use a flavored condom and let DW give me an O, simply to experience Oing in her mouth - even though I'm not really - you get it!

mwm

Gemma said...

mwm, we've never used flavored condoms... or any condoms for that matter. But if your dw would be willing to use it, it would be worth a shot to experiment.

Anonymous said...

Flavored condoms are a great way to please him...with none of the mess.