For the last couple of days, GR was out of town on business. We were both extremely tired last night after he arrived home late so we caressed some, kissed and made plans for sex this morning before drifting off to sleep. Well, duhhh... folks, sometimes we do have to plan these things so they will happen. If it is not happening for you, do you bother planning?
It was around 6am when we sort of woke each other. Things felt a bit odd. I don't know... I think we were still tired. No, I KNOW we were tired and would have slept longer but it was almost time to go pick up dd#1 from work. PIV-IC is one of our most favorite activities so normally, I prefer to do that first and then move on to other things. This time we did things in reverse and chose to do man-stim with each other.
With my hands dripping in coconut oil, I gave GR a hj, fully intending to stop ahead so we could do PIV-IC. I wasn't going at it all that long... it must have been a good hj and he must have been terribly aroused. Before I knew it, I was enjoying the visual of him shooting all over my stomach, my hands and my arms. OK, so there will be no PIV-IC in the cards for today, lol! But I did enjoy the visual and I'm good with that.
You just never know how a session will turn out, do you? Perhaps that is what makes sex so enjoyable and unpredictable. When things in bed take a turn from the norm, how do you react to it? Do you try to fight it or do you go with the flow? Have you learned to be thankful for each and every sexual encounter with your spouse? After all, they are all good aren't they, each in their own way.