Saturday, May 10, 2008

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Anonymous said...

The questions I asked for fun on TMB just give me a bit of a mental image who I am corresponding with. Cheers, BUZZ.

Who am I said...

Dear Gemma,

Happy Mother's Day. Hope you have a wonderful time with your family.

I appreciate what you do with your blog.

Hope you have some passionate loving with your husband.

Gemma said...

Thanks for the Mother's Day greeting, "who am I"! And, yes, GR and I did enjoy some passionate sex already. Our day has been wonderful. Happy to hear that you appreciate my blog.

Gemma said...

"who am i", I've been praying.

Who am I said...

Dear Gemma,

Thanks for your prayers.

We had some good discussions, some fun, some serious and somewhat tense, and some just informative.

We are now in Kansas City. She wanted to watch a couple of her favorite shows- The Bachelor and Dancing with the Stars.

I came over to the International House of Prayer www.ihop.org. It is a church that has worship and prayer 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.

Very refreshing.

A couple of questions I thought of today for you in light of my discussion with my wife. Did your sexual desire for your husband just sort of zoom up all at once, or did it just take awhile like a slow burn?

Was it hard for you to decide that you would basically be willing to make love to your husband almost anytime?

Gemma said...

"who am i", I'm happy to hear your trip's going well. Sometimes progress takes time and effort with many "baby steps".

:::Did your sexual desire for your husband just sort of zoom up all at once, or did it just take awhile like a slow burn?

My sexual desire became healthy in a long drawn out journey---

1. 19 years of no SD, no sexual desire and little awareness that I was neglecting GR. I was hung up on promiscuous past, infertility, female medical issues (emergency hyster about 10 yrs ago), etc.

2. nearly 4 years of no SD, sexual desire picking up but no knowledge of how to fix me, awareness of my neglect in our marriage and praying hard for God to change me.

3. nearly 2 years no SD, even more desire to have healthy, active sexual relations in our marriage, reading books for answers but nothing clicking yet.

4. finally reading The Proper Care & Feeding of Husbands by Dr. Laura Schlessinger, followed by registering at TMB. That's when everything came together, in Dec 2006.

:::Was it hard for you to decide that you would basically be willing to make love to your husband almost anytime?

Not so much hard but strange after so many years of "no sex". By Dec 2006 my SD had finally kicked into gear and it returned just as it had been when we first married, very high-SD. So you see, I didn't become "willing" to have sex almost anytime. I became a dw who ravishes her dh as much as he ravishes me since both our SD's are high now. We are always sexually "after each other", as it should be.

And GR and I have a rule---

If one of us is horny one night (or morning) when the other is too tired, we either push ourselves to make the effort and then we both enjoy or.......... we make arrangements for sex in the morning or if it's morning, we make plans for sex that night. And we ALWAYS make good on our "rain checks".

There is no "I'm not in the mood" because we're always in the mood to pleasure each other. If we skip a time, it's only because we really need a few hours of sleep.

Who am I said...

Dear Gemma,

Thanks so much for sharing more of your story.

It is very encouraging.

My wife and I both went to the International House of Prayer this morning, for some awesome worship. She felt like God was just pouring into her.

We are reunited with DD and she is staying with us in a cabin in nowheresville tonight. She has one final and packing tommorrow.

Gemma said...

Ugh... college finals! We just went through that with both kids a few weeks ago. Stress for the whole family... but it ends tomorrow for you guys. Have a safe trip home.

Mark said...

That's exactly what I was thinking!!!

Mark