Friday, May 23, 2008

7 Ways to Tell If You Are Addicted to Porn

This morning, I spotted an article from FOXSexpert:
7 ways to tell if you are addicted to porn
I only scanned the article but I thought I would post it to see if others would find anything new that they were not aware of. The following quote from the article is one thing that popped out for me:

"Even if you thought you’d never be caught in the web of porn, the wrong click at the opportune time could have you hooked. Spicing up sex is just one of many reasons people explore all sorts of erotica."

When I hear folks say that they are bored with their marital sex... that they need to "spice it up"... I often wonder if it is really an issue of them lacking sexual passion. Sexual variety and sexual passion are two completely, yet related, areas. It is quite possible to have a passionate marriage without much variety (ie- many different activities & toys). However, to maintain sexual passion for the long haul of it, relying only on variety will be a poor substitute for lack of passion, truly.

Imagine that an individual was disabled and could only have sex in one position with his spouse? And what if the two of them tragically ended up on a deserted island and had no sex toys with them? Could they not have sexual passion for each other? Don't misunderstand me. I think sexual variety is great in a marriage, however, passion is the greater thing to be desired.

So, back to the article. What are your thoughts of it? Anything there you did not already know or was it all "old hat"?

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