This past week has been a busy one for me. Yesterday morning, we finally got to sleep late (read: leisurely morning sex). My family-- GR, the girls and I, enjoyed a late lunch of BBQ baby back ribs (some Easters we do lamb), grilled corn on the cob, Greek salad, beer bread and angel food cake with fresh strawberries. Dd's 1 and 2 have both been studying for finals so GR and I prepared all the food except the beer bread, which was made by dd#1. I love fixing food while drinking good wine so that's what GR and I did. Of this year's spring season, this was our first meal enjoyed on the screen porch.
Then, last night as GR and I headed off to bed we saw that dd#1 was still up studying. The moment I hit the bed it was obvious that GR wanted to ML but I whispered to him, "We have to have quiet sex tonight or dd#1 will hear everything."
We did good and I was proud of how quiet GR was throughout the session. He has this little quirk about him. And if you tell him I said this, I'll deny it and call you a liar (jk). He possesses little sense of volume and no sense of rhythm. It is a funny thing--- If I say "quietly" he thrusts s-l-o-w-l-y, lol. I don't quite get the connection between the two words but anyway...
Last night we enjoyed a whispered exchange of erotic comments back and forth while shhhhhhh... quietly and s-l-o-w-l-y doing each other. We haven't French-kissed lately but last night GR kept gently grabbing my face and French kissing with me. There's something sexy about a man grabbing his dw's face in the midst of passion! It sends tingles through my body. Maybe the Fr kissing was part of the being quiet thing, dunno :shrug:.
I purposely don't like to Fr kiss every time we ML because I like to keep it special. That way when we do, it is oh. so. very. hot. Honestly, Fr kissing makes me feel like a teenager in heat. The longer we go at it, the more I want to keep it up and that's pretty amazing for this 50-something yo wife.
We finished everything off before finally drifting off to a sound, satisfying sleep.
How do you enjoy quiet or slow sex? Do you have something that is unique about your method?